We are being strict on ourselves. However, research has shown that self-empathy promotes resilience and is useful as an emotional protection mechanism. Think of a difficult situation you have to manage in life (or a situation you had managed in the past).
Write some details regarding the situation. What are you thinking?
What would you tell your friend if he was in a similar position?
What tone would you use?
How would you talk to him?
What actions would you take?
What conclusion do you reach?
Try to practice self-empathy with the technics described above every time you indulge in self-criticism.
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